The first I and my boyfriend met was not for a date, but for a casual hookup. The two of us met on a one night dating site, because we share lot of things in common, so we decided to make an offline hookup. Before we formally determine the serious dating relationship, we have always been in the hookup. What I want to say is that the definition of a serious relationship has always been ambiguous before we become the only ones. In this open era, many couples start from hookup or one night dating, so I don't think our story is unique.
Do you want to know how to change from a hookup relationship to a serious relationship? There are a lot of hookup apps out there, and there are all kinds of single people. When two people who are hooking up online, a good hookup may bring friendship and may bring love. Just like me and my boyfriend, we became a good friend at first, and finally became a lover. Since the first hookup, we can't help but want to hook up with each other, so the feelings will also appear quietly together. Many people have become lovers with their long-term hookup partners. We also interviewed couples who share our experience and see how they changed from a hook-up relationship to a couple.
"We also met on a one-night hookup app, but we don't feel that we are looking for a one-night dating, but I think we are quite in tune, I want to hook up with you, and I want to date with you as well."
"My boyfriend and I met at a movie theater. He sat next to me because we were all going to watch a movie alone. So there was a simple conversation throughout the movie. Initially he asked me to have a weekend together. Go out to play, and then our meeting can't help but hookup together. All dates ended in the bedroom. Later we will spend hours chatting together, then go out for dinner together, or go for a walk by the beach. It’s not just about hooking up. I know that one day, I watched him feel blushing. Then I couldn’t help but want to avoid his eyes, then I knew I liked him. We both have no in the case of love, I went to understand each other and did not evaluate whether he met my expectations of partner. We ended up very smoothly together."
"At the time I was 24 years old, I was a very sexually motivated person, so I would look for different dating partners on some hook up apps. But he is only 20 years old, I admit that I like him a little. But because of the age difference, I didn't intend to go in the direction of love, I used him as my favorite hookup date. But since we hooked up for the first time, we couldn't help but want to see each other. We never really ask each other about being together, but we are now engaged."